Wednesday, 24 August 2016

Question: "What women really want?" Answer: "Support and Freedom to Evolve and Achieve Excellence in their lives of choice."

Question: "What women really want?"
Answer: "Support and Freedom to Evolve and Achieve Excellence in their lives of choice."

We have, exemplary evolving examples experimented at our home since several generations and with relatives too. They are successful in their lives. From Grand mothers to mother, to sister, to .....cousins.

One liner Questions and Answers. 

Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude, India.

Thursday, 18 August 2016

Sports culture in India or in any country for 10 Olympics ahead

Sports culture in India or in any country for 10 Olympics ahead
Investment in cricket = badminton = kabaddi = volleyball = studies = foot ball = base ball = swimming = chess = ....equal importance to all games, coach, in schools, in clubs, medal winners, amateur, learners, at Asiad, at Olympics, at commonwealth, euro-cup, or this and that cup, in school, college, university, .... professional level, etc. 
It has been observed that in many countries there is importance given only few sports, while others are neglected. Ex. in India, cricket is taking away all the focus since last few years till date...2016.
There is lack of connection between club sports to national level playing to Olympic dreams. Even the sports classes are replaced with regular subject classes. Sports is still not a career in India, with which people can earn their daily bread, unless the person reaches at the level of Vishwanathan Anand. Thus complete revampation of the system, procedures, and vision is required. Please read the issue of IJORD in which it's covered. 
Rest all written, several times.
Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude

Sunday, 7 August 2016

Sorry God for humans’ on purpose creative and innovative mistakes and errors (Poem)

Sorry God for humans’ on purpose creative and innovative mistakes and errors   (Poem)
Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude

Dear God, I’m feeling Sorry about many of the humans’ on purpose creative and innovative mistakes, errors  
I also feel proud about his many of the creations too, like, computer, mobile phones, good habits and values among few humans like my individual family have
However, this poem is just to express my gratitude to you and expressing sorry about freedom you gave to man and man used it for the domination of the self over other species and entities on earth and surrounding places
Humans started dominating earth since long
Humans are destroying earth atmosphere
They have destroyed the major rivers,
They have destroyed the mountains,
They have altered the whole ecosystem on the earth,
They have killed many species
They are killing millions of mosquitoes, cockroaches, bacteria, viruses good along with the bad and harming ones
They are even altering the bodies, deforming the bodies of their own species too, by corrupt practises, as a doctor,
They are hurting their own fellow beings by breaking the trust among themselves, in lot of professions,
They are hurting their own species by misconducts and harming ecology and economies and ecosystems
They have cut trillions of trees and will be out of trees very soon in case, the brains and minds given by you is not overpowered by the human lust
They are throwing lot of chemicals on earth and spoiling everything on earth
You name it God, and humans have interfered in all your domains
They have used this power of creativity more in bad ways than good ways,
They have a system with which power always goes into bad hands than the good ones
Because of this even 90% humans are living without basic amenities
I mean it, power in wrong hands of few humans is destroying everything that you created and you want to sustain forever
I’m feeling sorry about this, all the times, whatever I try, I may try, I’ll try, and my efforts will have limitations, always
I'm feeling sorry about, I want to do a lot, but, the real contributors are still hand scuffed, or they are busy in just earning their daily lively hood, or they have been sidelined and are gone into oblivion,
I'm feeling sorry about, people the doers are being left job less or service less on purpose and been threatened,
I'm feeling sorry for show-off decorative leadership positions which cannot chance the face of humanity,and the show-off decorative prizes and awards, which always goes among selected few or known people among few known circles,
The conditions are going bad to worst, still the humanity should live or else left to you, you can obliterate the whole on earth we don't mind, but, let me take chance to make favor if possible,
Please forgive me for all my wrong doings, and human wrong doings till date, but, please save the good people and values, to let your world goes on and on and on.

Poet: Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude, India

Thursday, 4 August 2016

Our amazing 5 Rich family friends and 5 Poor family friends

Our amazing 5 Rich family friends and 5 Poor family friends:

Rich 1: Dr. T. : He is rich by pocket and by heart as well. His family has a principle, they never go to market for grocery or for daily vegetables and never buy branded products but local quality products.
I asked him, "Why?"
He said, "We might reduce the price by Re. 1 or so but, let the vendors earn their daily bread by buying on their cart coming near the home. Also, there are many local good organizations whose products are better than the branded one we select them and let their employees earn their lively hood."

Rich 2: Dr. A.: He is rich by pocket, heart, soul and lives a miser life too. Drives highly efficient bike too. He is so down to earth, that, none realizes he is rich man now. Once, a patient from the hospital asked him shall I pay the taxi bill, and requested him to come his house. Once, the patient got recovered, he came to his house to thank Doctor/ Physician for what ever cure he has been taken care. Once, he entered the house, he realized that Doctor is a rich person.
When asked him, "Why?"
He said, "For environment, and I try to remember my past that I have done farming in the field to study after 10th grade till MBBS. Also, if Doctors/ Physicians show they are rich then sometimes poor patients are afraid to speak. It's better to live on the ground, when you see everyday people living and dying in front of eyes. Simple living and high thinking was the basic mantra we were grown up. "

Rich 3: Mr. A. : He is rich by pocket but it's hard earned. I've seen him crying for job 40 years ago. Now, with dint of hard work he is rich by heart, soul and pocket but still down to earth. Always helping, always ready to move for good cause.

Rich 4: Mr. B. : He is from royal descendant but lost the descendant 2 to 3 generations ago. Literally, I have seen him asking for few thousand rupees as loan. Later, he worked so hard that, he is again living again a really rich life. Everything at it's place. Hard work speaks here more than money, that's very important.

Rich 5: Mr. S. : The broad minded super influencer, leader and businessman plus wise man. Once, few children committed unbearable mistake, all said, they should be punished and rusticated. He was the only one who said, the children of 18 years cannot commit such mistakes without misguidance. I also had the same opinion. We had the suggestion system. Ultimately, the real culprit was found and was punished. Though rich, though having power, though ..... he is wise decision maker that hurts none other than the culprit, shows, even rich can be just and live for a cause. .... many stories of him.

Poor 1: Mr. S.: He drives the manual Rickshaw. Rickshaw puller he is. Takes my mother to places and comes on his own. Many times he takes money later, when ever required for family needs by keeping in mind all calculations.
I asked him, "Why?"
He said, "Your mother, taught my children how to study, now they are doing well. However, she gave me money when these children used to go to schools and I didn't have the money to pay their fees. Also, if I keep the money in pocket the bad habits swipe away the pockets. Hence, whenever I need it to buy monthly grocery or paying fees of the grand children, I come and take it, this is idea of your mother only. It helped me a lot and hence I could build a small independent house now."

Poor 2: Mrs. M.: Literally maid servant. Have seen her husband die due to liquor overdose and then.... She has seen her daughter dying from cancer. However, she taught her children well, and teaching grandchildren well and have become icon in her locality, with all well-behaved family.... Rest is the history for her being hardworking and always busy.

Poor 3.: Mr. P. : Still hard working and in the hotel industry. He was servant. Then started his own very small business and sticking to it. Have always been well behaved and his children too are well behaved. His two children are his life time asset he says along with his well behaved and hardworking family.

Poor 4: Mrs. G.: None. Literally none is left in our areas whose nappies were not changed by her till 1980's till she was 80 years old, including top bosses of of 55 years old and you name it. She worked as maid, or chapati cook. She was extremely well behaved and had command over children and even richest to poorest in the locality. All respected her for her wisdom. Her, all children and grand children also are well behave and well to do now due to her well grooming and control over the family.

Poor 5:


Dr. Ashish Manohar Urkude, India